I was talking to a client the other day and she realized she was constantly questioning her worthiness in her marriage. 

She realized that if her husband did or said the things she needed him to, she felt worthy and loved. She felt complete.

But if he didn’t do them, she subconsciously took that as a sign that he did not love her and she was not worthy.

That reminded me of the infamous line in the movie Jerry Maguire where Jerry says to his estranged wife, “You complete me.”  

In today’s podcast I’ll teach you where your true worth and completion come from and help you take that pressure off of your husband and your marriage.

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We have all been through things in our lives that hurt. And we tend to carry that pain around with us throughout our lives. Telling and retelling the story of what happened to us and how bad it hurt. 

If you’re not telling your story publicly, you are telling it to yourself over and over again. Some of us do both.

In this episode of the podcast I am going to teach you how to heal your past so you can feel better and move on with your life.

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I once had a super-vivid dream that I had a new boyfriend. The love was fresh and new and fun. It was that honeymoon phase of love.

Do you remember that from your own relationship? Ahhhh…those were the days, right?

In this week’s podcast, I’ll give you one tip on how you can get some of those loving feelings back into your relationship no matter how long you’ve been married!

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Have you ever felt like your husband doesn’t listen to you? I think many of us have at one time or another.

What we might not realize is that we are the ones causing that to happen by how we approach conversations.
So, in this week’s podcast, I will share a personal story and a simple tool to help you communicate with your husband so he listens to you.

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My client’s husband had a problem with being chronically late for dinner. They always planned for dinner to be at 6:00 p.m., but he hardly ever made it home on time, and he never called or texted.

My client was feeling disrespected and unimportant. She wanted to work it out with him, but every time they talked about it their conversation ended in a fight.

In this week's podcast, I am going to teach you how to have a difficult conversation with your husband that doesn’t end in a fight!

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Many women reach out to me for help in their marriage because they feel lonely. They are not alone, a national survey conducted in 2018 found more than 30 percent of married people report feeling lonely.

Isn’t that crazy? 30 percent. Well, help is here. I brainstormed and came up with 7 ideas to help you if you are feeling lonely in your marriage.

We’ll talk about practical things you can do, logistical things you can do, how to communicate with your husband about it and how to wrap your mind around it in a healthy way.

I hope you’ll tune in.

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I don’t know about you, but sometimes I get stuck in negative thinking patterns.

Say, your husband does something that bothers you, and you keep ruminating on it and thinking about it and have trouble letting it go.

I’ve learned to notice these negative patterns and pull myself out of them, and I’d like to help you do the same thing.

So, on today's podcast, I thought I’d share a time with you when I got stuck in a negative thinking pattern and show you how I got out of it.

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I’m going to be really vulnerable with you here. It was Mother’s Day, and my husband gave a bottle of wine to another woman.

You’ll have to tune into the podcast to hear the whole story, but I can tell you that I was so hurt by that.

Mothers get two days a year—their birthday and Mother’s Day—to be doted on by their families, and I felt like this incident took that away from me.

All I wanted was to feel cherished on that day.

In this podcast episode, I’ll share how I got help from God with my thoughts and feelings. It’s kind of a cool story. I hope you’ll tune in!

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I was slamming toys into the toy box that night. That’s how angry I was that I came home to a messy house after a girls night out.

What was the problem? The problem was that I had an expectation that the house would be clean when I came home, but it was not.

Today’s podcast will look at how unmet expectations can kill the intimacy in your marriage and what you can do about it.

​If you would like more inspiration, download my Ultimate Guide to Guilt-Free Self-Care HERE!

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Are you and your husband at odds with each other more than you are in harmony these days and you don’t know why? You’re not alone, and I can help. Many of us are unknowingly creating disconnection in our marriages.

I’d like to stress the word “unknowingly” here because there are relationship skills no one has taught us. We go to school to learn reading and writing and math, but they don’t teach us relationship skills.

​So my intention here today is to shine a light on a few things that might be breaking down the connection in your marriage and show you how to repair it!

If you would like more inspiration, download my Ultimate Guide to Guilt-Free Self-Care HERE!

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